Sparkie
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Slinging Rocks!
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New York
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I must agree with all of it. I own no fire arms but when the opportunity arose I let both sexes blast away,(they were bored, kinda, although the scout kinda dug it).
Learning to do instantly what you tell them,(not stop to ask why), may save their lives. Believe me they will ignore you soon enough, but as another pointed out, as long as they know you are doing it for the right reasons, lt' work out in the end.
You can help that, by eventually explaining why you said STOP RIGHT NOW OR MOVE LEFT NOW.
This can stop a kid from say...stepping in front of a truck, falling tree, going over cliff.
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a biggie, it never happened to me until my mom stepped in during a very nasty encounter where I was so over the top right, it could not be denied.
never forget, to say, "sorry son, you were right on that call". It is for that reason we do not speak, probly never will again. Iam talking about from 12 or 15 years and older.
And let them fail enough times to understand failure, even if their intentions are good and they think it should go their way.
The only thing worse than a sore loser is an obnoxious winner. Never laud over person if you win, even though they would do it to you.
On food, you control it. Do not let a kid have soda, sugar candy, iced tea, coffee until they are 7-8 years old. If you do, your kids will have less depedence on it. My kids love chocolate, pie, fruits, and some pure sugar stuff.
but at dinner if one said "more spuds please", it had to come with more veggies, plain veggies. I let them control portins I control content. My kids love veggies and everything that tastes good. They are adults who will never be fat(like me), or at least it looks that way to me. But they also get real exercise,(steeple chase anyone?, sans ler horsie).
There is so much, I must stop.
oh I amost fergit, never say to youself..."I cant wait for this phase to be over, cuz when the phases are all done, you will be old" . I stopped sainy that phrase 10 years ago.
enjoy the ride
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